The Dreaded Visible Bra Strap

After recently discussing the ins - and visible outs - of bra straps, I discovered today that my favorite sleeveless top shows off my bra straps too.

What to do; what to do?

Do I indulge in a few new tops? I like that approach. Any excuse for some nice clothes is an excuse worth considering. What about a few new bras? Clearly, if my straps are slipping beyond their bounds, perhaps the issue is better fit. (Another good idea - after all, a few new bras can perk up both the spirits and the breasts.) Then again, maybe I need to consider the merits of bra straps that are bejeweled and decorated, so I can show them off with pride!

Nah - that’s just not me.

I think there are those who can carry off bra straps that show. It’s a fun look - but it isn’t exactly the look for a woman with young children (unless she is also under 30). My fashion maven status may remain in my 40’s, but I find that a less flashy look results in more positive attention and less muttering about things like a “second childhood”.

Which brings me back to straps. Bras with spaghetti straps are hard to find in a triple D; while the mechanics of a bra put the bulk of the work squarely on the band (where it should be), it does look a bit funny to have delicate, tiny straps on an otherwise larger-sized bra.

However, it’s not impossible. It’s really all about fit.

Which reminds me - It’s time to review some of Monique’s best bra shopping tips:

  1. The right bra for the right fashion. This one is simple - if you are wearing a sleeveless top, buy a sleeveless bra! (Just kidding.) So, if the bra you want to wear has delicate spaghetti straps, it’s perfect fine for that slim-fitting tank top or shell sweater. Fit the bra to the clothing.
  2. If you already own the clothing, go bra shopping with the outfit on! Another easy way to ensure that your bra will work with your clothes is to shop for a bra while wearing the particular item. You can see immediately if the bra creates a flattering look in the garment - or not.
  3. Have a variety of bras. Dressing comfortably and in a way that flatters your shape is always easier if you keep a selection of bras in your size - especially if you aren’t keen on constant handwashing of your lingerie. (I’m certainly not.)

Which leads me to think that I might just buy a new bra. It’s my husband’s birthday, so I have the perfect excuse - we have a date tonight.