The Dreaded Visible Bra Strap
After recently discussing the ins - and visible outs - of bra straps, I discovered today that my favorite sleeveless top shows off my bra straps too.
What to do; what to do?
Do I indulge in a few new tops? I like that approach. Any excuse for some nice clothes is an excuse worth considering. What about a few new bras? Clearly, if my straps are slipping beyond their bounds, perhaps the issue is better fit. (Another good idea - after all, a few new bras can perk up both the spirits and the breasts.) Then again, maybe I need to consider the merits of bra straps that are bejeweled and decorated, so I can show them off with pride!
Nah - that’s just not me.
I think there are those who can carry off bra straps that show. It’s a fun look - but it isn’t exactly the look for a woman with young children (unless she is also under 30). My fashion maven status may remain in my 40’s, but I find that a less flashy look results in more positive attention and less muttering about things like a “second childhood”.
Which brings me back to straps. Bras with spaghetti straps are hard to find in a triple D; while the mechanics of a bra put the bulk of the work squarely on the band (where it should be), it does look a bit funny to have delicate, tiny straps on an otherwise larger-sized bra.
However, it’s not impossible. It’s really all about fit.
Which reminds me - It’s time to review some of Monique’s best bra shopping tips:
- The right bra for the right fashion. This one is simple - if you are wearing a sleeveless top, buy a sleeveless bra! (Just kidding.) So, if the bra you want to wear has delicate spaghetti straps, it’s perfect fine for that slim-fitting tank top or shell sweater. Fit the bra to the clothing.
- If you already own the clothing, go bra shopping with the outfit on! Another easy way to ensure that your bra will work with your clothes is to shop for a bra while wearing the particular item. You can see immediately if the bra creates a flattering look in the garment - or not.
- Have a variety of bras. Dressing comfortably and in a way that flatters your shape is always easier if you keep a selection of bras in your size - especially if you aren’t keen on constant handwashing of your lingerie. (I’m certainly not.)
Which leads me to think that I might just buy a new bra. It’s my husband’s birthday, so I have the perfect excuse - we have a date tonight.